01 / The lesson
Clarify before you coach
A teammate says, “I’m stuck on the launch plan.” It is tempting to jump straight to advice. But you may solve the wrong problem if you have not learned what “unstuck” means to them.
Try three moves. Ask what a good outcome would look like. Reflect the outcome and constraint back in your own words. Then agree together on one next step, with an owner and a check-in time.
This does not mean withholding your expertise. It means making sure your experience serves the other person’s goal instead of replacing it.
Try this line: “Before we jump to options, what would a good outcome look like for you?”